Become The Person God Wants You To Be

Like boats or debris floating along the surface of a river, our thoughts and feelings must be resting on something.  This something is the inner stream of consciousness, which is our participation in God’s being.

 – Thomas Keating

 We constantly think thoughts.  We daydream.  We dream while we sleep.  Though we often do not remember.

We attach ourselves to our thoughts and emotions.  We are proud of our accomplishments.  We are excited when the home team wins.  We are frustrated when things do not go our way.  We are annoyed when the car in front of us drives five miles per hour below the speed limit.  We allow the community or our places of work to define who we are and how we should act.

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I recently re-read Open Mind, Open Heart by Thomas Keating.  I was struck by the above quote.51ub4azrjfl-_sx321_bo1204203200_

Do all of my thoughts and emotions really rest on something else?  Is this something else the participation in God’s being?

During centering prayer my thoughts do not stop.  My sacred icon opens me to the presence and action of the Divine within.  When I ever so gently return to my sacred icon, I let my thoughts and emotions go.  I am not attached to my thoughts. 

I notice that the space between my thoughts increases during centering prayer.  I know it increases because I set a timer when I practice centering prayer.  Time seems to fly and the closing bell rings to let me know my centering time has come to an end.  I explain it as I enter the space between my thoughts.

The space between my thoughts is the inner stream of consciousness, which is my participation in God’s being.  It must be a safe place.  I do not need to think.  I feel no emotions.  I just am.  I do not know what happens in this space.  I emerge from this space calm, peaceful, energized, ready to continue my day.

I also notice that during the non-silent parts of the day when I find my thoughts and emotions race I am able to let them go.  I am able to detach from them.  I watch them and see what they tell me.  I remind myself that they are not me.  If I am nervous, worried, sad or lonely I remind myself that they are not who I am. 

Each day I return to my centering prayer practice so I can rest in God.  When I rest in God, I best learn how to participate in God’s being.  I do not really learn.  I open to God.  God seems to do all of the work.  I emerge from each sit refreshed.  I am ready to face the tasks ahead of me. 

Centering prayer is a practice that I will continue.  Centering prayer teaches me how to participate in God’s being.  Centering prayer teaches me how to be the person God wants me to be.

Go Further:

Also by Thomas Keating

Open Mind, Open Heart 20th Anniversary Edition

Intimacy with God: An Introduction to Centering Prayer

Invitation to Love 20th Anniversary Edition: The Way of Christian Contemplation

Manifesting God

Reflections on the Unknowable



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